( Oct. 26th, 2010 10:52 pm)
Someone broke an appointment with me last month. I'm not entirely sure how to proceed - there's been no response to email, IM, or texts. I could call them, but I'm worried I'll distract them from work or schoolwork, which will just make them mad at me.

I'm not sure how I'm supposed to feel.

I don't think they'd like it if the situation was reversed, but I'm also fairly sure there's lots of perfectly valid reasons for not making the appointment and not saying anything to me afterwards. Even if it's "Fuck you, get the fuck away from me," at least I'll know what's up (admittedly, not the response I'm hoping for).

I get the sinking suspicion they've been hurt or pissed or both by something I've written - which wasn't my intent. Not that that matters, exactly - my intent isn't to hurt anyone, but that doesn't mean I can't hurt someone unintentionally. Intent not being magic, and all. But I'd like to think that they're at least similar to me in that things that hurt unintentionally at least can be worked through, or possibly forgiven with some effort on the person who did the hurting's part. But I can't do anything to fix it if I don't hear from them. Of course, they could not want me to fix it, which is their right, as much as that sucks for me.

I hope they're OK.
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